RE 311: S is for Self Sabotage

by Kris Oyen | Feb 1, 2021 | Podcast

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Emmy took her last drink on December 8, 2019.  This is her story of living alcohol free (AF).

Finding Your Better You – Odette’s weekly message.

Odette spoke about a personal and very sensitive issue: she is an Adult Child of an Alcoholic.  She took charge of her recovery but recently identified some behaviors and coping mechanisms she was hoping to skip over that are rooted in her early years growing up in an alcoholic home.  Odette realized she had been stuck in a pattern of self-sabotage for years in many aspects of her life, some more dangerous than others.   Self-sabotage showed up in her relationships with friends, at school, and with her husband.  While Odette doesn’t like the label of being an adult child of an alcoholic, she has come to realize she can’t wish the consequences away.  Pain in our families makes our emotional state a bit disheveled.  We live waiting for the other shoe to drop.  We were guarded and untrusting.  This state became our normal:  the feeling that something is wrong all of the time.

Odette is focused on understanding the impact self-sabotage has on her behavior.  She is practicing new behaviors.  She is working on making small shifts – to see things differently.

No matter how destructive our behavior has been in the past, we can experience new ways of being. 

[9:38] Odette introduces Emmy

Emmy took her last drink on December 8, 2019.  She is from Fort Worth, Texas, and she is 30 years old.

Emmy is a recreational therapist who works with children and adults with various disabilities.  She is single, no kids, and lives with her five-year-old dog Petey.  She has fun participating in her recovery, getting to know who she is, and learning to become her own friend.

[13:06] Can you give listeners some background on your history with drinking?

Emmy said she started drinking around 16 or 17. She was at a friend’s house where somebody had brought over a bottle of alcohol mixed with Propel and thought it was cool.  She remembers the first sip giving her this sort of warm feeling inside and thinking, ‘nothing bad can ever happen with this.’ She kept that routine going every weekend as a teenager.  When she went to college, she found an excuse to drink every night, whether trivia night or intramural sports. She also worked in a restaurant and could drink behind the bar. Everybody was doing it, so it didn’t seem like a problem at the time.

She graduated college and worked in a nursing home by day and a restaurant by night.  She was working 50-60 hours a week, which gave her another excuse to drink because she worked so hard.

[14:45] At this point, were you starting to question your relationship with alcohol, or were you thinking this is just what people do? 

Emmy said she knew as a teenager; it may become a problem in the future.  She saw so many people doing the same thing and thought she would have to look at it later down the road.

[15:28] Walk me through what happened afterward, how did that progress?

Emmy went to grad school, which started drinking Round 2.  She thought, I’m still in school, I can still live the same lifestyle.  She graduated, got a Director job in a nursing home, with more responsibility.  She was not surrounded by as many people who drank as she did.

She began putting feelers out to different people, asking if she had a drinking problem.  She was asking the wrong people, the people who drank as she did.  She took that as validation she didn’t have a problem.

She drank regularly for a few more years.  She thought it was fun.  There were many examples of alcoholism in her family.  Problem drinkers have a problem every time.  She believed she could maintain control and continue drinking.

[17:35] Were you creating any rules for yourself, like moderation rules?

Emmy said, don’t we all?  She had rules about, don’t drink on Tuesdays and Wednesdays.  She would break her rules all of the time, then double down on guilt and shame.

Emmy moved to Texas, and she wasn’t around anybody she knew anymore.  She started drinking alone.  She could still have a glass or two of wine and feel fine the next day.  She was still getting up for work and had a really good job.  Nothing was taken away from her, so she didn’t think it was a problem.

[18:36] You said the word, YET, was powerful in your journey.  The inner turmoil between the heart and the brain can be exhausting, were you tired mentally?

Emmy said this is what led her to admit defeat.  She found herself doing the same thing over and over again.  She was sick and tired of being sick and tired.  She was sick of being pulled out of her life, missing amazing moments while she continued drinking.

[19:49] Did you have any people in your life who were pursuing sobriety or battling addiction?

Emmy said yes.  She grew up with alcoholism in her immediate and extended family.  She had little seeds planted in the past ten years by people who chose recovery.

[20:32] So what made you change your mind?

Emmy said on December 7, she was feeling unsafe and recalling a previously abusive relationship. On vacation in California, she was sneaking drinks when nobody was looking so not everyone would know how much she’d had to drink.  She treated somebody pretty poorly that night.  She was up all night and came out of a blackout, realizing she was yelling at someone.  She looked in the mirror and told herself, you have completely lost who you are.  It was an out-of-body experience, and within a few days, she reached out for help out of desperation.

[22:18] That’s a powerful moment: a self-intervention.  Was the progression of your drinking a way to cope with the pain of an abusive relationship?

Emmy said, absolutely, but she doesn’t think of herself as a victim anymore.  She feels empowered from the healing and counseling she has done and discovered the abusive relationship was an excuse. Self-pity became an excuse for her behaviors.

[24:48] You decided to reach out for help. What did that look like for you?

Emmy said, leading up to this day, she was drawn to a client’s mother with 30 years of sobriety.  She drove her client home and walked up to the door, and just collapsed in her arms, sobbing.  She was met with acceptance, told about some options, and felt safe.

She went to an AA meeting at 10 pm that night, and it was a magical moment.  She felt love, acceptance, no judgment, empowerment, and she has been going to AA ever since.

[28:05] How connected are you to faith or guidance?  It sounds like you were catching signs.

Emmy said she grew up in a religious home and always had God there.  She believes not making him her #1 pursuit got her off track.  She recently connected to the spiritual side of her program and believes God sends messages through people.  Her faith has grown in the past nine months.

[32:19] Tell me about those initial months. What was it like? How did you have to adjust your daily routine?

Emmy said the first three months were just a release of emotion.  She had no cravings. She was grateful to God for lifting the obsession.  She was learning how to be a human, to walk soberly.  She still had problems and started learning how to deal with them without alcohol.

She is getting to know God, getting to know herself.  She is establishing a routine and creating stability that she never got as a little girl and felt empowered by the choice.

[34:42] What is your go for handling problems and negative emotions?

Emmy is trying to strengthen the pause, pausing before reacting.  She takes 5 minutes to herself and breathes.  She is working on not being impulsive.  She continues to practice pausing every day.

[36:27] Tell me about your routine?

Emmy is awakened by her dog at the same time every day.  They have a routine.  She then does a daily devotional, journals, relaxes as her form of meditation to clear her head.  She walks the dog to get outside and enjoys fresh air.  Then she starts work.  God and her recovery come first.

[38:51] What is your favorite part of the journey so far?

Emmy does five in-person meetings a week and talks to her sponsor when problems arise.

[39:56] What is your response when someone offers you a drink?

Emmy said it varies, and she liked to make it funny. I’m allergic.  It makes me mean.  No, thank you.

[40:37] Thoughts about the future (wedding, milestones)?

Emmy said she has thought about it. Will anyone come if I have a dry wedding?  She is learning it’s easy to have fun without alcohol. She is learning to “stay where her feet are.”  She stays in the present and is enjoying being in the present.  Stay where your feet are; you are here.

[42:35] How have the relationships in your life shifted or changed?

Emmy said she feels blessed with good friends and believes she is the one that has changed.  She practices being grateful for her friends, being present for them, and enjoys remembering conversations the next day.  She treats people better. She feels supported and has excellent long-distance relationships.

[44:15] Where do you find inspiration from outside of your meetings?

Emmy said she loves the Recovery Elevator podcast, talking to her sponsor, prayer, and journaling.

[45:15} What do you associate with the word alcoholic?

Emmy said she doesn’t have a problem with it.  She sees it as an opportunity, a relief, not a label.

[46:03] Rapid Fire Round

1. What are you excited about right now? What possibilities in your life?

Helping others in recovery, giving opportunity to other people.

2. What do you bring to a party when they tell you to bring your drinks?

La Croix – passion fruit

3. What’s your favorite ice cream flavor?

Breyer’s chocolate truffle

4. What’s a light bulb moment you’ve had in this journey?

If you don’t drink, you won’t get drunk

5. What has recovery made possible for you?

Self-love

6. What parting piece of guidance can you give listeners who are thinking of ditching the booze?

Keep open-mindedness and willingness.  Don’t be too hard on yourself.  If the thought has crossed your mind, give it a try.

You may have to say Adios to booze if …

getting a drink (one drink) sounds like a waste of time

Odette’s weekly challenge:

What is in your baggage backpack that you want to get eliminate?  A character defect, a challenging conversation, a task you have been avoiding. Muster the courage and go for it. You are brave and so much more capable than you realize.

If you are an Adult Child of an Alcoholic, I am with you. You are not alone and together is always better.

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The book, Alcohol is SH!T, is out. Pick up your paperback copy on Amazon here! You can get the Audible version here!

Resources:

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RE 310: Positive Relationships

by Kris Oyen | Jan 25, 2021 | Podcast

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Sasha took her last drink on May 19^th, 2019. This is her story of living alcohol free (AF).

Check out the free meditations on the Recovery Elevator page here!

Odette’s weekly installment of: Finding Your Better You

When Odette doesn’t want to forget something, she sends herself an email. Recently she found one to herself with the subject line: Positive Relationships. The body of the email said simply: “The biggest factor for cultivating resilience” (Season 17, Grey’s Anatomy)

We need resilience when embarking on this journey. Not just for this, but for everything life throws at us. Our journey is far from perfect, when we fall we need the courage to get back up and that’s why we need community. This is why together is better. Having one person in your corner can make a huge difference for you.

How many positive relationships to you have and are you fostering them?

[7:19] Odette introduces Sasha.

Sasha is from New Jersey and works in IT. She lives with her fiancé and their dog. For fun she likes to read, do jigsaw puzzles, meditate and collecting old books from estate sales.

[10:37] Can you give listeners some background on your story?

Sasha said she started drinking around the age of 18. It wasn’t anything that was intense, but she knew from the first drink it would make her be “her true self.” She got a DUI at the 20. Around 21 was when she started drinking alone. When she was 23/24 she was crying and falling apart every time she drank. Her thoughts were preoccupied with drinking all the time.

[13:48] Did the DUI make you question your drinking, or did you think that this was just something young people did?

Sasha said it was both. She knew she drank in a way that wasn’t normal but felt because she was so young it was also ok. Looking back she knew it should have been a big warning sign.

[15:36] Did you have any rock bottom moments?

Sasha said rock bottom was when she was drinking alone and miserable. She had the realization she was miserable but didn’t know how to get out of it.

[16:13] How did you get yourself out of the cycle?

Sasha said she was listening to the RE podcast and reading Eckart Tolle and doing the Sam Harris ‘Wake Up’ course and this gave her the realization she had a drinking problem. Her end goal when drinking was always to be drunk, so the solution was to have none.

[18:09] Was the podcast your first exposure to other stories of people’s drinking?

Sasha said after her DUI there was court mandated AA meetings and that was her first exposure. She loved hearing what people were going through because she could identify with them.

[21:20] What Tolle book were you reading?

The Power of Now

She was also reading In the Realm of Hungry Ghosts which covers many of the same themes.

[24:54] Were you having conversations with your fiancé about your drinking prior to May 20^th?

Sasha said she always minimized it, so they never had direct conversations about her drinking. When she told him, he was very supportive and zero judgement. They continue to have conversations about her drinking.

[26:27] Did you feel relief when you told him?

Sasha said yes, a tremendous amount of relief. She was so lonely in her drinking and to have him be so accepting was what she needed.

[32:05] How was it for you right after you made the decision to stop drinking?

Sasha said for her it was like a switch flipped. She was so happy to be free from alcohol that her “pink cloud” lasted about 6 months. It helped that so many other things fell into place in that time as well. Sasha received a promotion at work, they got a dog, she was connecting with herself, reconnected with old friends and all the small things put themselves in place. It was hard for her to imagine going back to drinking.

She had a craving around month 8, but was able to play the tape forward and that tool helped her not have a drink.

[36:27] What happened after the pink cloud? What other tools do you use?

Sasha said this time quitting was different, she was able to flip a switch. She no longer romanticizes drinking. But overall she hasn’t had the white knuckling craving this time.

[39:27] Did you have a routine in your day that you had to fill with new things?

Sasha said it was when she left work. In the past she would leave work and pick-up alcohol on the way home. At first, she was distracting herself with seeing friends and taking her dog for a walk or eating. Getting out of the house was really important.

[44:55] What type of responses did you get from people when you told them about this decision?

Sasha said most people were supportive. Every once in a while, someone questions the decision. Some of the people she used to drink with have also come out and admitted they are struggling and she has tried to point them in the right direction for resources.

[46:48] Rapid Fire Round

1. What would you say to your younger self?

Give her a hug and tell her everything will be ok.

2. What’s your favorite ice cream flavour?

Chocolate

3. What has recovery made possible for you?

To live a life of peace and to be vulnerable with others.

4. What parting piece of guidance would you give to listeners thinking about ditching the booze?

Stick with it if you’re struggling to quit. The fact that you are even trying to do this right now is huge. Find resources that will work for you.

You may have to say adios to booze if…

it’s 2pm on a Tuesday and you’re googling, “Do I have a drinking problem?” with one eye closed because you can’t see the phone.

Odette’s weekly challenge:

Make a small inventory of your relationships. Which ones would you like to see changes in? Which ones would you like to cultivate?

Upcoming events, retreats and courses:

• You can find more information about our events

Affiliate Link for Endourage:

For 10% off your first CBD order with Endourage visit this link and use the promo code elevator at checkout. 

Affiliate Link for Amazon:

Shop via Amazon using this link.

The book, Alcohol is SH!T, is out. Pick up your paperback copy on Amazon here! You can get the Audible version here!

Resources:

Connect with Cafe RE – Use the promo code OPPORTUNITY to waive the set-up fee.

Recovery Elevator YouTube – Subscribe here!

Sobriety Tracker iTunes 

Sobriety Tracker Android 

Sober Selfies! – Send your Sober Selfie and your Success Story to  –info@recoveryelevator.com

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RE 309: Curious VS Douchey

by Kris Oyen | Jan 18, 2021 | Podcast

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Stephen took his last drink on January 24^th, 2020. This is his story of living alcohol free (AF).

Odette’s weekly installment of: Finding Your Better You

“The pleasures of connecting with people are much greater than the pleasures of judging people.”- Johann Hari

If we show up genuinely, we can connect with someone. If we are pretending to listen, we will not connect. Only with actual connection can we truly see each other. In a little departure from talking about quitting drinking Odette is asking us to explore being a better listener. What would that mean? What would that look like? Listening to each other has the power to heal, however it’s also very hard to do. Can we be more curious and see how this can impact relationships?

[6:01] Odette introduces Stephen.

Stephen is 33 years old and lives in Austin, TX. He enjoys exercise, teaching tennis and using his Peloton. He’s planning to return to school in the near future.

[7:30] Can you give listeners some background on your story?

Stephen said he took his first drink at the age of 15. He was curious about it and remembers finding something that made him feel relaxed. Being so focused on tennis, alcohol was mostly a secondary thing. In 2008 he joined the military to be an Airborne Ranger, which is also where he noticed his drinking changed. He left the military in 2015 and the drinking followed him. With nothing to wake up for at 5am anymore, he was able to drink differently. After a few years he walked into an AA meeting and went all in for 7 months’ time. He began drinking again for 5 months which led him to January 2020.

[14:59] Tell me more about your being in the military and the binge drinking. Did you question your relationship with alcohol?

Stephen said he only questioned his drinking in the midst of a bad hangover. He was surrounded by so many others that drank the same way, so it was very normalized. Alcohol was a temporarily release from the stressors.

[19:07] Have you shifted your thinking from that of learning to endure to finding joy?

Stephen said he is still working on this. Coming from his sports and military background he was taught to do whatever it takes to get through something. He’s learned that only works in the short term, but the emotional impact last longer. In recovery Stephen has taught himself that it’s ok when things are easy and to go with the flow. He had to allow himself to surrender to the fact that he cannot live with alcohol in his life at all.

[22:45] What has been different this time?

Stephen said this time he had to adjust his all-in mentality. He’s more tied into recovery communities with actual people and listening to their struggles and stories. He gave up the idea of being perfect but at the same time accepted that he can’t be the best version of himself while drinking alcohol.

[25:06] Have you found anything in sobriety that makes you feel relaxed and free?

Stephen said running helps him and it’s when his body feels good and his mind is at peace. He’s working on trying to be ok with his own thoughts in his own head. Having real conversations with real people makes him feel free.

[25:57] What do you do when you have a craving?

Stephen said he eats. It’s simple and it works for him. He didn’t eat when drinking because he didn’t want to ruin his buzz. Now it’s the opposite. If that doesn’t work, he reaches out.

[26:57] Tell me about this year.

Stephen said at the beginning of COVID he was still able to be collecting a paycheck. He also went through a big breakup, which was different being sober.

[29:30] What’s your everyday routine look like?

Stephen said on a daily basis about connecting with people about his life and their life. Addressing mind, body and spirit, as well as attending therapy.

[31:14] How have the interactions with family and friends been?

Stephen said his family can now see the version of him that’s able to be present. He’s having conversations with family members who are questioning their own drinking.

[34:01] Have you figured out the why of your drinking?

Stephen said he’s been exploring a lot of deeper things with his therapist. He grew up in a home where he had to walk on eggshells. So, he thinks the drinking allowed him to be free of that. However, that led to all of his emotions being repressed and without an outlet except through drinking. Drinking allowed him to feel things and feel human.

[35:38] Have you found therapy to be helpful?

Stephen said yes. He’s an analytical person by nature and having someone to be a sounding board has been helpful. He wouldn’t have gone through a lot of the childhood trauma without his therapist.

[37:36] Has your sleep improved?

Stephen said not yet. He hopes it’s the last piece of the puzzle.

[39:49] Have you gone back to AA?

Stephen said yes, he’s working through the steps again. But he primarily focuses on a larger network for his own recovery.

[41:07] Rapid Fire Round

1. What would you say to your younger self?

Stop trying to find clarity and happiness in a bottle. What happened to you as a child is not your fault

2. What book are you reading right now?

Claim Your Power by Mastin Kipp

3. What’s your favorite ice cream flavour?

Amy’s Ice Cream: Mexican Vanilla

4. What parting piece of guidance would you give to listeners thinking about ditching the booze?

There is no perfect recovery.Find your own path, don’t look back and you aren’t alone. There are so many people living a life without booze.

You may have to say adios to booze if…

you jump out of a plane drunk, because you are still drunk from the night before.

Odette’s weekly challenge:

Only you know what is best for you. Protect your energy. What works for some might not work for you. We are all here to encourage and inspire each other. We are challenging big alcohol, you are a part of this.

Upcoming events, retreats and courses:

• You can find more information about our events

Affiliate Link for Endourage:

For 10% off your first CBD order with Endourage visit this link and use the promo code elevator at checkout. 

Affiliate Link for Amazon:

Shop via Amazon using this link.

The book, Alcohol is SH!T, is out. Pick up your paperback copy on Amazon here! You can get the Audible version here!

Resources:

Connect with Cafe RE – Use the promo code OPPORTUNITY to waive the set-up fee.

Recovery Elevator YouTube – Subscribe here!

Sobriety Tracker iTunes 

Sobriety Tracker Android 

Sober Selfies! – Send your Sober Selfie and your Success Story to  –info@recoveryelevator.com

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RE 305: Heal Your Mood

by Kris Oyen | Dec 21, 2020 | Podcast

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Sarah took her last drink on April 22, 2019. With over a year away from alcohol (at the time of this recording), this is her story of living alcohol free (AF).

Recovery Elevator RESTORE January 2021 Course. We will be offering this starting 1/1/2021. We’re meeting 13 times in January via Zoom to give you the tools and accountability needed for an alcohol-free January… and hopefully more!

We’ll be focusing more on creating a life where alcohol is no longer needed. We’ve found that when we have healthy altruistic relationships with fellow human beings, the need for alcohol or any external substance drastically reduces. For more information and to sign up, use this link.

Odette’s weekly installment of: Finding Your Better You

Odette recently received the book Homebody by Rupi Kaur. As Odette looks at her own sobriety as a return to self, this book is very fitting for where she is in her own journey right now. Here’s your permission slip this week: take care of yourself. This time of year can be overwhelming for many. When we are overwhelmed, we may also open the door to fear. Using our tools, we can make life manageable and hold space for everything we are feeling.

list of things to heal your mood:

• cry it out. walk it. write it. scream it. dance it out of your body.
• If after all that
  you are still
  spiraling out of control
  ask yourself if sinking into the mud is worth it
• the answer is no
• the answer is breathe
• sip tea and feel your nervous system settle
• you are the hero of your life
• this feeling doesn’t have power over you
• the universe has prepared you to handle this
• no matter how dark it get
  the light is always on its way
• you are the light
• walk yourself back to where the love lives

[6:42] Odette introduces Sarah.

Sarah lives in Wisconsin with her husband and her son and their dog. She is 30 years old and works in marketing. For fun she likes running, reading and crafting. She loves live music as well.

[8:52] Can you give listeners some background on your story?

Sarah said she had her first drink around 14 or 15 years old. Form there she drank almost every weekend and became a party girl. The lifestyle continued into college. She transferred her sophomore year and focused on her health. When she turned 21 it ramped up again. Being in WI the drinking culture is strong. After college she kept partying on the weekend, but the culture of drinking kept her in it. At the age of 26 Sarah had a moment that changed it, she woke up feeling shame. In 2017 she told herself she was only going to drink on special occasions, she made it 60 days without alcohol. At a friends 30^th birthday was when she drank again, and it was like old times, up until 4 am drinking. She also found out she was pregnant at the end of March 2017. While pregnant she missed drinking and was ready to get back to it. She found herself turning to alcohol as a reward. Sarah began to see that she wasn’t someone who could just have one, she always went overboard.

[21:30] Has it been cool finding different ways to unwind at the end of the day?

Sarah said she turned her beer fridge into a NA fridge. Her and her husband make mocktails. She turns to something that’s relaxing rather than alcohol to unwind.

[22:59] Talk to me about when you started this journey and being in a relationship?

Sarah said her partner was really supportive. He never said anything about her drinking, but it caused problems when she was drinking. She was worried about their relationship however because they met through partying. He however is someone who supports her no matter what.

[27:31] Did you start using social media as a way to find other sober people?

Sarah said when she was on her moderation journey, she found some accounts that were about being sober. When she got serious, she went back and found them and was amazed at how large the community had grown. Sarah found 1000 Hours Dry and enlisted a friend to do it with her. Sarah helped grow her community through Instagram. She’s co-started New Fashioned Sobriety with some friends she met through Instagram and they plan meet ups (virtual right now!).

[33:39] How was it going to the in person retreat in Bozeman?

Sarah said she was very nervous about going, but also about what her family would think. During the retreat she met and connected with so many people she wouldn’t have otherwise and really emersed herself in the event. Sarah said she came home with new tools and tons of new friends.

[37:52] Do you still get cravings?

Sarah said it’s mostly when she romanticizes her drinking, but for the most part no.

[41:28] Tell me what your most beloved tools in your toolbelt.

Podcasts are #1, this Naked Mind and the community on instgram.

[42:31] What’s your go to response when someone offers you a drink?

No thanks, it makes me feel like shit was her go to in the beginning. Now she normally brings her own so it’s not a conversation!

[43:33] Rapid Fire Round

1. If you could talk to day 1 Sarah, what would you say?

You life is going to change so much in so many positive ways, you will still be you, you just will have a fuller life.

2. What is your favorite ice cream flavor?

Blue Moon

3. What book are you reading?

The Sober Lush

4. What parting piece of guidance can you give people thinking about ditching the booze?

Stop thinking about all the thinking you will lose, but instead focus on the possibilities.

You may have to say adios to booze if…

you black out on Easter Sunday before American Idol premiers at 7pm.

Odette’s parting words:

Love yourself hard this week. We don’t have to drink to escape our feelings. If you need any extra help, please ask for help. You can email Odette.

Together is always better.

Upcoming events, retreats and courses:

• Recovery Elevator RESTORE January 2021 Course. We will be offering this starting 1/1/2021. We’re meeting 13 times in January via Zoom to give you the tools and accountability needed for an alcohol-free January… and hopefully more!
• You can find more information about our events

Affiliate Link for Endourage:

For 10% off your first CBD order with Endourage visit this link and use the promo code elevator at checkout. 

Affiliate Link for Amazon:

Shop via Amazon using this link.

The book, Alcohol is SH!T, is out. Pick up your paperback copy on Amazon here! You can get the Audible version here!

Resources:

Connect with Cafe RE – Use the promo code OPPORTUNITY to waive the set-up fee.

Recovery Elevator YouTube – Subscribe here!

Sobriety Tracker iTunes 

Sobriety Tracker Android 

Sober Selfies! – Send your Sober Selfie and your Success Story to  –info@recoveryelevator.com

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